Telling a wife her husband died during ruptured aneurysm repairActor: the wife of a 78-year-old man taken to theatre for emergency open repair of his ruptured AAA; he arrived collapsed, systolic BP below 80
Actor: breaking bad news of an intraoperative death
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Know this first
- SPIKES: private setting, check perception, invitation, give knowledge, empathy, agree sequelae.
- NURSE for emotion: name it, understand, respect, support, explore.
- With anger: stay calm, don't take it personally, listen, keep everyone safe.
- Unstable ruptured aneurysm: in-hospital mortality 62% after open repair in a meta-analysis.
The patient
The examiner asks
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You are in the relatives' room. How do you begin?
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- I'm speaking with his wife after his emergency aneurysm operation, to tell her he has died. Patient
- My bleep is with a colleague, a nurse is with me, and we are sitting down in private. Communication
- Can I check you are his wife? I'm the anaesthetist who looked after him today.
- Before we go on, how much have you been told about why he needed surgery?
- I'm afraid I have very serious news about your husband.
Explain
Tell her what happened.
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- The big blood vessel in his belly had burst, and he was bleeding heavily inside before he reached us. (Communication)
- We operated at once and gave him a lot of blood, but his heart stopped.
- We worked to restart it for a long time. I'm so sorry. Your husband died.
- I'll stop there for a moment. Take all the time you need.
Respond
She is silent for a long time, then says: 'No. He was talking to me this morning.'
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- It's a terrible shock. He was talking with you this morning, and now this. (Communication)
- I'm sorry, it is true. He died in theatre this afternoon; we could not save him.
- I'll stay here with you. There's no rush.
- Is there someone we can call to come and be with you?
Respond
She becomes angry: 'Why did they operate at all if he was going to die?'
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- I can see you're angry. That is completely understandable after losing him so suddenly. (Communication)
- Stopping that bleeding needed an operation; the team saw surgery as his only chance.
- Even with surgery, most people whose aneurysm bursts the way his did don't survive.
- I won't guess at anything I'm unsure of. The surgeon and I will go through any question honestly.
Close
She asks to see him. How do you close?
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- Yes, of course. A nurse will take you to him once he's ready. Communication
- Would you like the chaplain or a relative with you when you see him?
- The nurse will explain the death certificate and what happens over the next few days.
- Here are my name and number. I'd like to meet again, with the surgeon, whenever you're ready.
- I record who was present, what she was told and the support arranged in his notes. After surgery
Fatal mistakes
- Saying 'passed away' or 'we lost him' instead of 'died'.
- Blaming the surgeon or any colleague, or speculating about errors.
- Leaving her alone with no support person and no follow-up.
Checked against: Miller 10e · ESVS clinical practice guidelines on abdominal aorto-iliac artery aneurysms (2024)
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